Letter to the Parent

(Before the next class and to keep in our file, we had to write a letter to the parents of our future foster/adoptive children- so this is what I wrote so far. I am just not sure what to write without being too sappy, or too stupid.)

Dear Parents,

My name is Christine and my husband’s name is Frank. We have been married for nearly 15 years and we have two nearly grown children. Our son, Daniel is graduating from High School and leaving for Army Basic Training soon. If he hasn't already by the time you actually see this. Our daughter, Samantha is studying Speech Therapy at ASU and works as an Aide at a Montessori Pre-School, and is happily anticipating moving into her very first apartment soon. Despite being originally born here in Arizona most of my family except my parents, are located in the Boston Massachusetts area, while Frank’s family is still located in Massachusetts.

We are an active family who enjoys outdoor activities but also enjoy quite Sunday’s just vegging out relaxing and spending time as a family. We like to attend sporting events, movies, plays, go swimming, hiking, bicycling, and camping to name but a few of our hobbies.

We chose to become foster/adoptive parents because for a long time we have felt that there is a space in our home and hearts to fill and there are many children in need. As a young couple I am not ready for my “nest” to be empty and desire to continue to help children. As a Pediatric Registered Nurse I a have extensive experience with children with special needs, as well as children without.

One important fact to know is that, I came into this marriage with two children from a previous marriage and Frank stepped right in and loved my children as if they were his own. I want you to know this because it speaks volumes about the character of this man, who has become an amazing father, despite not having biological children. I also tell you this because we want you to be assured that we will care for and love your children as if they are our own.

We want you to know that your children will be safe and we will do everything in our power to advocate for your child (ren) in every aspect of their care and safety. We will work with you to facilitate a positive transition and hope that you will feel comfortable working with us.

Kindest Regards,

Christine and Frank