To close our foster license or not. To move forward with the next steps with the girls or not. Honestly deep down I think that our plate to full to the brim and despite having help, me returning to work full time will just be too much for hubby if we added more children, even ones who can do most of the care themselves. It's a lot of work for someone who still can't figure out that "playing" with the baby does not include him sitting on the couch next to you fussing while you are on your phone reading Facebook. Despite popular belief, he is NOT a person who can multi task. Mr D requires a lot of attention, since his vocabulary requires you to actually see him to understand it. SPD (sensory processing disorder) children and those with visual impairment require more help with transitions.
To top it off D is mobile, S is mobile, and now Spud is becoming mobile as he has finally started to roll. Emily is bearing weight in her legs and gets around pretty dang good now in her gait trainer. Miss S is walking without holding hands if we use her harness and once she gets over her fear she will be running all over soon.
House hunting is stalled do to lender qualifying issues as the things they told hubby to do to "fix" his credit actually tanked his score. So now that mine is well over 100 points higher than when I started so now we would have had everything we needed, we are scrambling again. Bad news is we found the perfect house. Because we had been told we only needed my score higher by 18 points (they never thought it would climb 100) I actually looked at a house, and it was perfect and affordable. Go figures right?
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