Girls are def going home in Aug... most likely the first week. Which is good for everyone. You know how the bio parents have to complain about something. I mean heck if you complain enough about how bad the care is in the foster home the judge will just send them home right? Ummm... yeah more like split them up, send them to a crisis center and scar them for life.... yet I digress... the list of bad care they are getting...
1. The girls are always starving when they come to a visit.
(Yup well it's either lunch or dinner time when they get there and they like to eat all the time... they are so starved here that in the few weeks they have been here they have gained 5 pounds each... sounds more like I am actually over feeding them and probably need to cut back on allowing seconds, thirds and probably cut out a few of the snacks as well. I'm sorry if 3 meals and 3 snacks are not enough food in your opinion.... may I just add that I receive currently zero money for the food that I am feeding YOUR KIDS!)
2. They are always wearing the same few outfits.
( Yup it's pretty much all they have right now for the summer season because you keep buying them hair bows and make-up instead of summer outfits, because um... kids grow every year at that age. Oh and yeah the state only gives me $0.33 a day for clothes which I haven't actually received yet, I have already purchased the 3 same outfits that they are wearing, and a few pjs that you don't see and yeah... well... BUY YOUR KIDS SOME DAMN CLOTHES!!)
3. The kids say she makes them do chores like clean their rooms and clear their plates after meals!
( Holy shit really? Call a cop... or better yet... you are stupid)
4. The dog ate their Barbie Doll.
(Yup you told the girls they don't have to listen to me or do "chores" like pick up after themselves and the older said you will just buy her a new one anyway so she doesn't have to put things away if she doesn't want to.... see answer above)
Next CFT is July 9th... I addressed my issues today with making sure the older gets 1:1 counseling. They are adjusting the visits again and I will soon not have to transport at all!
Counting the days baby!
OMG that would drive me NUTS!!!!! Wow! Yup, she is grasping at straws, nitpicking any little thing she can.. doing chores is a BAD thing? Seriously?! She's forgotten what being a parent is all about. I'm sorry, hang in there!
ReplyDeleteSo are the kids going home or to some alternate care? I feel bad for how incredibly screwed up their going to wind up. With parents who don't parent, it's not likely to turn out well.
ReplyDeleteWhat! You make them do chores?! Doesn't matter, if you didn't they would complain about that. It is the nature of the beast since they have no control they look for ways to make your life miserable. It isn't about the kids. I will tell you, garage sales are my friend!
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