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An email to CM from FM
We have had three visits and after wards she becomes a needy cry baby . She is having a very hard time at school ,Thursday they called cause she just wasn"t a happy camper , on Friday she was crying and screaming so much I had to go get her early the minute she heard my voice she stopped till she didn't hear and then started again . I did take her home early . Last Wednesday Christine and her daughter inlaw came to my house , I was just putting her in the shower , They did her hair /half of it , I then said let"s take a break and do lunch Christine was putting her in her chair and the right leg got stuck under the left and she screamed . I then picked her up to calm her , She was more then willing to eat , but would not swallow it . I did scoop the food out of her mouth . I haven't had to do that since we first started feeding by mouth. She is waking up in the middle of the night crying . If you have any questions please feel free to contact me .


BTW- we didn't do her hair while she was screaming she did. We did it while she was asleep after. She fed her and she wouldn't swallow, I fed her and she did but it was a small amount of cookie. She pulled her hair alot while finishing it so she was very traumatized by it. I was the one who placed her in her WC and was adjusting her, because they had it set up wrong when she just said pick her up, and then fixed the chair because I had my hands full- she did not scream she fussed a tiny bit, she was quite and happy after that and very interactive with me and continued to be. Her school is new and she's never been there before. She also didn't mention our first visit she also went to Phx first then drove back over there hadn't seen in a year the same day you saw us. Yeah... they warned us... they should not take what she says as gospel... we shall see.


**Our adoptions worker said to not do anything until she talks to the case manager, but after the last visit I had nearly already made up my mind because like I posted before... I figured when she said she was going to fight it... that all of a sudden she would be having "Major" issues. **