Today is our third visit with "I" I will be going down there to visit her with my future DIL in tow. Wish my daughter could have joined us then it could have been a true Mommy daughter bonding day.
I must confess that I almost didn't get to go today. I overspent this weekend and ran out of money, which is pretty important for gas with a drive that far. I do not have a reserve fund, yeah I should fix that! Anyway, I am returning a set of curtains that I don't like and well, gas money became available.
I am excited and nervous and not looking forward to the drive but will have my future daughter-in-law with me so we can bond as well. We are both missing my son like crazy!
The girls have started another day of visits, so now they see their parents every day except Monday. All this has done has increased the behaviors of the oldest, "I am bad because I don't like it here." Because she thinks that this will make it so now she can go home sooner. I wish she would get the picture that because she is bad, is why she doesn't like it here. She doesn't like it here because she doesn't like to get in trouble. But she has said she breaks the rules on purpose. You know you are breaking the rules and will infact get in trouble, is it necessary to prove this point? I know so many of you are going through this, the great and powerful ODD is a fucking jerk!
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