If your adoption worker were standing at your door right now with your child... how would they look?

Are you f'ing kidding me? Are they seriously wanting me to answer this? I have no idea, I have an empty place in my heart, a spot that I knew at least 1 child was supposed to fill and who has been missing from our family to make it complete.

I have had this feeling for a very long time... the problem is... I have never, not once, EVER had an inkling on what they looked like or acted like. Why? Because I have known for a long time that biologically they would never be mine, and since your heart does not pass on genes, I never attempted to guess what the child, born from my heart, would look like.

So NO I can not answer this question... what I can say is... when "the" child comes to my door and joins our family through adoption, I will know them when I see them, and they will be "perfect" for us... even if that child is not the first one that comes through our door as a foster child.