I do not like this part. D has a major cold and the biggest thing with him because of the cleft pallet is that post nasal drip/runny stuffy nose goes right down his throat and he coughs alot. I have so much fear of him aspirating and getting pneumonia. :-( Right now he is already on an antibiotic because they see fluid in his ears, so at least we have that, but there isn't much more than you can do for a 5 month old baby. He's napping right now and we have him on Miss E's pulse ox and he's actually not desating when he is coughing so at least there is that. Poor baby.
I talked to his mother and she said the nephew that was thinking of coming here and adopting him is not answering her phone calls or the calls from CPS at this moment, at least that's what she says, I'll check with CPS and see what they say when she comes next week. I mean the Aunt keeps saying that he is just like her youngest son, so it'd be enough to scare off a couple who literally have no idea what they'd be getting into, and whom don't currently have a bond to and he is not bonded to them.... I am against this if you haven't gotten the idea yet. Of course I want to keep him. I love the little guy, and if he doesn't go back to his parents, (which I'd be better with), then he should stay here.
It'll be 6 months next month that we'll have had Miss E and we can move forward with her adoption petition. I have a ton of paperwork to complete still on that one.
In N's case they apparently weren't all to considered with how much we neglect her, because she is still here, despite us actually asking that she be moved. She's also gained nearly 10 pounds, except that yesterday hubby spent the whole day with her and crazy family members at the ER because she had some issues with one of her chronic conditions and the PCP office that they insist we take her to, has NO CLUE how to take care of special needs kids. Thus the reason she is in Foster Care in the first place. Honestly she actually belongs with her father and family and they just need some services and education.
we did receive a call again asking if we were open because they want to place a 7 year old girl with us. I told them if they weren't actively looking then in a few weeks we should have an opening as we keep calling to have her moved, then we would. This little girl is available for adoption, was supposed to be adopted by the family, but they are having a baby or something and don't want to adopt.... I have no idea if anything will come of it, but it's an option. I did not however agree to adopt either.
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